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Confirmed: Mel Gibson tapes were all from the same day

Oksana Grigorieva press conference Though their once-a-day release over the course of more than a week painted a picture of nonstop ranting, the tapes of a profane, angry Mel Gibson were all from the same day, according to an e-mail from Oksana Grigorieva that was submitted to the court.

"The only recording i have made were on that night of your rage, the 18th of february, only 9 of them. But, if you remember, you called me at least 30 times and left endless insulting messages everywhere as well as you spoke to me many times," the actor's ex-girlfriend says in the document obtained by TMZ. The document includes a letter in several parts sent May 2, shortly before mediation that resulted in a $15-million settlement offer, which Grigorieva eventually did not accept.

Over the weekend, the singer and mother of Lucia Grigorieva-Gibson did an interview with Larry King that will air Tuesday night on CNN. A judge on Wednesday had rejected Gibson's request that she be prohibited from talking to reporters.

Grigorieva hinted at a Moscow news conference April 19 that there was scandal about to be revealed regarding the couple's split, announced a week before. "We have split up, suddenly and recently," she said at the presser. "Unfortunately, I cannot give you the reason. But you will find out everything quite soon."

She says in the May 2 letter that she played two of the tapes for her lawyers because they and her psychologist convinced her that Gibson and his lawyers would persuade Gibson to try to take Lucia from her -- yes, you read that right. Mel would persuade himself -- and that Team Mel would tarnish her reputation with "false facts" to avoid taking care of her financially.

She explains, "I only recorded them for you, so you can hear for yourself. What you sound like once you are engraged. For you to understand and to help you to change."

Plus, in the style of many dramatic breakups, there are insults hurled at Mel regarding his future ex-wife Robyn Gibson, whom Grigorieva accuses of waging a secret media war against her (the Gibsons' divorce is not yet final). 

"Are you a little boy, or are you a man?," she writes. "Why are you so easily being influenced by your mommy Robyn? Or is it two of them now, Robyn and [daughter] Hanna? You are either ignorant or pretending not to see how cleverly you have been minipulated. Either that, or you simply never loved me."

According to TMZ, Team Mel's lawyers see the letter as evidence supporting their extortion allegation against the singer, who reminds her ex, "If not for these recorded messages, you and your loyal people would have used any dirty trick they could. This is what ive been told and now i believe it. Too much evidence, my dear.

"So, Im sending my lawyers the rest of the messages and i'm sending you a few just to see why they were recorded in the first place."

Radar Online published the first of the audio tapes on July 9, though stories citing their content surfaced at the end of June.

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-- Christie D'Zurilla

Photo: Oksana Grigorieva at an April 19 news conference in Moscow, where she announced that she would perform a private concert to aid victims of the 1986 Chernobyl nuclear disaster, and hinted at scandal surrounding her breakup with Mel Gibson. Credit: Mikhail Metzel / Associated Press



Document: Mel Gibson admits slapping Oksana Grigorieva, not punching her

Oksana and Mel Mel Gibson says that he slapped Oksana Grigorieva during a heated argument but never hit her with a closed fist and that he did it only because she was out of control and he feared for daughter Lucia's safety, according to a sworn declaration obtained by TMZ.

"I slapped Oksana one time with an open hand in an attempt to bring her back to reality," he says in the June 23 document. "I did not slap her hard, I was just trying to shock her so she would stop screaming."

In telling his side of the Jan. 6 altercation that's at the center of a domestic violence investigation, the actor describes an argument that started in the kitchen and escalated after he told Grigorieva to get out of the house and she refused.

He says Oksana grabbed Lucia from her bassinet in the next room and shouted, "Stop yelling at me or you will make her into a retarded, brain-damaged idiot."

"She continued to scream at me and argue with me while she held Lucia between us," he says, "literally placing our 2-month-old baby in the middle of our argument."

In the document filed June 23, he describes his then-girlfriend running barefoot in a bathrobe through her son's room and out about 75 yards into the backyard at night, then squatting and screaming with the baby to her chest while he yelled at her to bring the child inside. Once she was back in the house, he says, she refused to give Lucia to him and swung the baby to keep her out of his reach.

"Oksana's rapid movements were causing Lucia's little body to be flung from one side to the other, her head shaking violently," Gibson says in the declaration.

"This was the only way I could think of to stop her hysteria," he says, explaining that he feared Lucia would be injured, and that his hand never touched the kid.

Grigorieva has accused Gibson of punching her in the temple hard enough that he knocked off a dental veneer and of hitting Lucia while she held the baby.

The couple split up in April, and reports of the fight and of tapes in which Gibson rants at Grigorieva started bubbling up at the end of June.

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— Christie D'Zurilla

 Photo: Oksana Grigorieva and Mel Gibson, post-fight but pre-breakup, at the Madrid premiere of "Edge of Darkness" on Feb. 1, 2010. Photo credit: Juan Medina / Reuters.



Oksana Grigorieva didn't tell doctor Mel Gibson hit Lucia, says pediatrician who says she saw no sign of injury

Oksana Grigorieva and Mel GibsonJust days after Mel Gibson was ordered by a family court judge to pay the back child support he owes Oksana Grigorieva, a sworn declaration has surfaced in which Lucia's pediatrician says she saw no injury on the child during an exam the day after an argument in which Grigorieva alleges Gibson hit them both.

Nor did Grigorieva mention any injury during the Jan. 7 visit, Dr. Linda Nussbaum said in a June 24 document published Friday by TMZ. A picture of an allegedly injured Lucia surfaced at the same time as recordings of the actor ranting at his ex-girlfriend; Team Mel maintains that photo was doctored.

"If I had observed any symptoms that indicated injury or abuse or if Ms. Grigorieva had raised the issue of injury or abuse, I would have certainly noted those details in my records," Nussbaum said. "I would have also reported any allegations of parental abuse to social services."

The judge on Wednesday ordered Gibson to pay three months' worth of child support that he'd been withholding until it was clarified whether $6,000 a month spent on Oksana's rent could be deducted from the $20,000-a-month payment. That was clarified to be a no, according to People.

Dad currently gets Lucia three days a week, with one overnight visit. Whether the baby is left with a nanny on the overnights was reportedly an issue at the Wednesday hearing.

Investigators are still looking into extortion allegations against Grigorieva but have given prosecutors their findings about domestic violence allegations leveled against Gibson.

In other Mel tidbits, he was photographed Thursday smoking a cigarette — and can you blame him, given that all this drama was allegedly transpiring when he was trying to quit back in January?

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For posts about the first, second, third, fourth, fifth and sixth Gibson tapes, click the appropriate links.

— Christie D'Zurilla

Photo: Oksana Grigorieva and Mel Gibson at an event March 4 in Los Angeles. The couple, whose child, Lucia, was born in November 2009, split up in April. Credit: Angela Weiss / Getty Images.


Judge gives Oksana Grigorieva a 300% child support raise from Mel Gibson

Oksana Grigorieva and Mel Gibson A judge on Thursday ordered Mel Gibson to boost his child support payments to Oksana Grigorieva to $20,000 a month from the $5,000 he's been giving his ex-girlfriend. Hey, now we all know of someone who's getting a nice raise!

Eleven-month-old daughter Lucia reportedly needs round-the-clock security, plus the usual necessities like food and medical care -- plus mother and child were used to the "Mel Gibson lifestyle," sources close to Oksana told TMZ.

Lucia was born in October 2009, and Gibson and Grigorieva broke up in April, with Oksana hinting days later that there might be a scandal. (Gee, ya think?)

The actor's divorce from Robyn Gibson, his wife of almost 30 years, with whom he had eight children, is not yet final, though a report Thursday indicated a settlement might be near. Robyn filed for divorce in April 2009.

-- Christie D'Zurilla

Photo: Oksana Grigorieva and Mel Gibson at the Spanish premiere of his film "Edge of Darkness" on Feb. 1. Credit: Juan Medina / Reuters.

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Mel Gibson extortion investigators will talk to Oksana Grigorieva's lawyers

Mel-gibson-sitting Sheriff's investigators want to talk to a couple of Oksana Grigorieva's lawyers as part of their expanding probe into whether someone close to Mel Gibson's baby mama attempted to extort money from the Oscar-winning angry man.

At least one of the attorneys had represented ex-girlfriend Grigorieva in her custody mediation with Gibson, L.A. Now reports. That mediation reportedly resulted in a $15-million deal -- ultimately rejected -- that would have required her to destroy all "evidence" related to the breakup.

No suspect has been named in the extortion allegations, but sources told TMZ on Tuesday that Natalie Grigorieva, Oksana's younger sister, was in possession of the explosive audio tapes of the couple shortly after they were recorded.

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Jodie Foster isn't throwing Mel Gibson under the bus [poll]

Mel-and-jodie Is Jodie Foster wandering into Whoopi Goldberg territory, putting her personal experiences with Mel Gibson ahead of the general rush to shun him?

"When you love a friend, you don't abandon them when they are struggling," Foster said in an interview to run in the October issue of More magazine. "Of course, Mel is an undeniably gifted actor and director, and 'The Beaver' is one of his most powerful and moving performances. But more importantly, he is and has been a true and loyal friend. 

"I hope I can help him get through this dark moment."

Foster, of course, directed and costarred with Gibson in "The Beaver," a quirky film with a fate that's gotten more uncertain in the wake of its star's recorded rants at ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva, with the attendant investigations into allegations of domestic violence (against him) and extortion (against her).

But that's all recent history in the context of the Gibson-Foster friendship, which goes back to ...

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Report: Like a good ex-boyfriend, Mel Gibson returns Oksana's CDs (and her music rights) [poll]

 

If you love something, set it free — but if you don't love it so much anymore, perhaps just have it trucked over to your ex's house and dumped.

Sources have told TMZ that Mel Gibson had "boxes and boxes" of unsold Oksana Grigorieva CDs shipped to her place and that he signed papers in August giving up his executive producer rights to her music. You'll remember Gibson sunk a bit of effort into his ex-girlfriend's career, including directing a couple of music videos (like the one embedded above, in case you missed it last year).

To the Ministry, this sounds like a classic "my therapist suggested this might make me feel better" move. Plus, seriously, who hasn't returned a few CDs to a former sweetie?

Thoughts?

— Christie D'Zurilla

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