A letter to beleaguered female waitstaff everywhere
A former bartender at West Hollywood's Foxtail nightclub is filing a sexual discrimination lawsuit against Foxtail parent company SBE for allegedly telling her she needed to lose weight if she wanted to keep working in the front of the house.
The story gained traction today as blogs like Eater L.A. reported that self-dubbed feminist lawyer Gloria Allred has signed on to represent the bartender, Virginia Tzortzos. Allred, whose clients have included Paula Jones and Nicole Brown Simpson's family, is known for catching the media's attention, and she did it again this morning with a feisty appearance on CBS' "The Early Show," where she chided SBE and asked, "How thin must a woman be to keep her job?"
SBE would not comment, saying, "As a matter of policy, we do not comment on pending or threatened litigation."
It will be interesting to follow this story, because although it's reprehensible to tell a woman she needs to stay skinny to keep her job, it's not remotely surprising to any woman who has spent time in the service industry.
Before becoming an employed writer, I spent seven years bartending and waitressing at a bar that was owned by a pair of elderly German men who hired only women, and those women were required to wear sexy-looking dirndls to work. I was 23 and broke when I took the job; the first day I had to put on the dirndl, I looked in the mirror and started to cry.







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